I wrote a month or so ago about turning dreams into goals. Part of that process, to me, is being BRUTALLY HONEST with yourself about WHY you want to accomplish the things you are striving toward.
Usually these reasons are not as superficial as the first thing that comes to mind when we ask ourselves why… It is even deeper than that.
So, you want to lose a few pounds, huh?
To be more healthy & fit.
WHY do you want to be more healthy & fit, though?
Continue reading “No, Really: WHY?”
Recently, I had a falling out (of sorts) with someone I deeply care about. . . Things are strained between us — & that’s putting it mildly. The other party has recently eased into small interactions. . . But I just cannot let things go so easily this time. I really feel that an acknowledgement of what has transpired is more than reasonable to expect — as is an apology. Unfortunately, I think pigs will fly before the apology comes, but that’s not to say that I think an acknowledgement will come either — at least not without finger-pointing, rather than personal responsibility. That’s the sad part. Continue reading “Will Pigs Actually Fly?”
It has been QUITE some time since I even entertained the idea of marriage. I have been content with the thought that if I ever married, I would without-a-doubt be MUCH older. This just goes to show that meeting the perfect person FOR ME has made ALL the difference in the world. I have absolutely no doubts that this is the man who I will spend the rest of my life with. It’s quite a lovely feeling. Continue reading “It’s Not Personal; It’s Practical”